Lot's of changes since I last posted. Almost to many to write!
I went through a break-up and "trying to make it work" stage from Oct 2011- April 2012. I have been single for the first time in my life since I was 17 since then, and it has been very good for me! I'm discovering who I am, what I want in life, and honestly re-evaluating everything. I used to think I'd be married by age 23 and having babies by 25, etc. etc. I have realized there is so much I want to do before I settle down. I want to finish my schooling, travel, see the world. A huge plus in this journey for me has been reconnecting with friends. When I was in a relationship, I felt like I never saw my friends and honestly didn't have many friends. Now, the best friends who have always been there for me have come back into my life and I couldn't be happier. I am such a busy bee now, I feel like I am never at home!
Home, by the way has changed a bit. I moved out of the townhouse that Mike and I lived in and into a house 5 streets away from my parents! This has proven to be a good and bad thing. Good for example, how I can call and say "Hey, Mom what's for dinner? Can I come over?" and bad for example this morning, when my dad stopped by just for fun and says: "Clean your room!" My new roomie is my aunt Diana, who is the twins' gramma. She is WONDERFUL! She always makes sure my belly is full and we make each other laugh.
In January I had a big ankle surgery. I recently found out it didn't exactly heal correctly, so we are trying an experimental treatment called "bone growth stimulation" to see if that will correct the problem. If not, i'm scheduled for another surgery November 7th. I'm hoping we can avoid this because I don't know if I'm mentally prepared for being a cripple again :( It's so hard. Surgery is definitely wearing on the body and mind.
If I do have to have surgery though, at least we have a plan for a "last hurrah" before cripple time! Some of my closest friends: Ashley, Jill, Giulia, Noemi and I have a trip to Las Vegas planned from Oct 25-28th! I AM SO EXCITED! We have tickets to a big halloween ball there, so I know we are going to have an amazing time :) I'm lucky to have friends like mine.
Another down side of this whole surgery thing though, is that I've had to postpone school for the third quarter in a row. I'm pretty bummed about this, as I just want to continue with school and be done! I changed my major to Project Management. I think I might want to go into Healthcare IT, but we shall see. Planning on getting my Masters' after my Bachelors, so I have about 4 more years of school to go.... I just want to move on with it already!!
All in all, life is sweet :) I'll try to be better about updating this blog.... I always say that, though ;)
XOXO,
Emilie